When band relationships don't work out...

Well you just got out of your first band relationship congratulations! I know your heart is broken and you wish you could take it back, but you can't reverse time. It's time for you to move on not by finding a rebound or anything. To actually find yourself again. To say i didn't need him or her anyway. Now if in the middle of drama with him or her is still going on I wish you luck just know you have friends and family to get advice from. Just take a deep breath and ignore them. Go out with your friends to get your mind off him. Or like me do what you love to do. Now if he broke up with you saying we can still be friends it is possible but you won't be best of friends anymore it'll probably be simple words said like hi and nice to see you again basically the bullshit that most people avoid. Buthaving to see each other every fucking day I would at least try and spark a conversation and don't bring up your relationship no matter how good or bad it was DON'T BRING IT UP! I know it's sucks i've been in your situation and it's going to take awhile to get over. But these are just simple things you could do instead of planning murder yea I know what you were planning over there you sadistic bitch. Don't kill him or her or the person they left you for just kill them with kindness. I'm trying to make this a little funny because i'm crying just typing this up and I know it's ok to cry and I usually would delete this off of here but it's ok to cry to get the anger and the pain out intead of putting on a smile pretending that everything is fine when it's not. This basically goes for any type of relationship Shit like this happens all the time and you have to deal with it. You can get thorugh it I believe in you. Don't let anyone take your smile away.